Different mothers but one wish

 Different mothers but one wish 

 Many of the mothers in the world are trying hard to find the Perfect man to their daughters even though the daughters are mature enough to date or meet new men. However, if you are one of those women who have been in an arranged date made by your mother or those who have made one to their daughters so do not worry about it because many women have been in the same experience such as Bridget's mother from Bridget Jones's Diary by Helen Fielding and Mrs Bennet  from Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen. 

The major reasons of the Similarity between two mothers from different times is the requirement for better Future for their daughters.moreover, the feeling of Responsibility return to the mother if one of her children felt Unsuccessful with one of their own life's issue.   

  

In the first place, we can understand why Mrs Bennet wanted to be sure that her daughters would be wedded with the most admirable and rich men because she was the Principle on the lives of her daughters whereas the girls obeyed to their mother under the pressure of  the rigorous moral Society. Besides, meeting at a ball was the usual way to meet noble men in the eighteenth century of the British history according to the describing of the first visit from Mr Bingley to the Bennet's family when he was anticipating to see the girls, but he could not see them(Blueprint 2013 p20-21). 

In contrast, Bridget's mother has no control on Bridget because she is independent in many places in the equitable society of Britain like educations, work, marriage's regulations etc...  However, the Nature insect of her mother started directly to appear after she saw that her daughter had started to be old with no man in her life how can be helpful for her in the future according to Helen Fielding's demonstration about Bridget's status. Therefore, we can see that the emotional relationships between the mother and her children are the common factor which makes most mothers worried about their daughters and disprove the idea that says that mother just like Authoritarianism.  

Lastly, in our time the parent's concern still very wide in the third World due to the poverty, society's old ideas, false beliefs, ignorance etc. Therefore, all of this made the parents force their daughters to unreasonable men who have huge Differences such as the age. On the other hand, the parents on the western world of our time have less concern than Mrs Bennet, Bridget's mother or the parents from the third world because of the start of the internet revolution (for example dating sites) and the new considerations of the privacy of the individual that had made parent's advises more limited. 

In conclusion, differences between the parents of our time or anytime else is gigantic, but there is no doubt that all of them have a common thought that they are the only one who can offer the best to us whatever how we are going to react because they claim that they know the best to our future, so should we agree with them? I think so because they are who have the long experience about life and they are the only how really love us.